and already fighting?

Does that sound familiar to you? But: when we experience another way we can argue with one another, quarreling and fighting can be beneficial. We then do not feel wrong or exhausted afterwards but instead just right as we are and nourished. Often fighting starts because of having missed the `pause-button`
and not having said clearly want you want.

Anger and aggression are feelings according to unmet human needs like to be understood and to be seen.